Apologies for the slow reply, Alan. With entity connections, only the 'following' relationship automatically creates the reciprocal connection, so to implement what you are asking you must POST both the relationship and the reverse relationship when you create the connection.
So for example, you would post this to show fred likes dino:
and also post this to show dino is liked by fred:
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